Okay, I’m just going to admit it, and come out and say it. The very first thing you read te the postbode wasgoed a bold face lie. I don’t actually know “How to Write the Flawless Very first Message”, and since I’m being fair, the title of this postbode is mostly for SEO reasons. I need this, no, Wij need this to be a PSA for guys of the internet who are doing online dating, on how to send a very first message. If I wasgoed being fair with the title of this postbode, I very likely would have called it something like “How to write a good very first message according to what Single Steve thinks is a good very first message, but I’m not truly sure you should take my advice because I infrequently get responses to my messages”. So, spil you can see, it doesn’t truly have the same stadionring, or appeal to someone searching on how to write a good very first message for online dating.
I determined to write about this topic for two reasons.
- Guys need to know that when they send super generic messages, women can tell they copied and pasted that precies message to lots of other women. AND THEY HATE THAT AND WON’T React TO YOU IDIOTS.
- I want to see if the structure of my messages that I send out is actually good?
Since I write a blog about the good, bad and funny of online dating, a loterijlot of my female friends send mij a lotsbestemming of their good, bad and funny interactions from online dating. Most of them falling into the bad and funny categories. It’s actually slightly enraging to read some of thesis messages that thesis guys are sending to some of my female friends, only because all I can think is “HOW THIS IS MY COMPETITION!?”. Especially when I receive screen shots of very first messages like the one below :
I can’t even. I literally can’t even. I just don’t understand. Like, when guys send thesis messages do they honestly think that the women they are sending them to don’t know that thesis aren’t just copied and pasted messages and sent ter masses to lots of different women. I mean, they vereiste not right? They vereiste think they are so fucking clever sending thesis copy and pasted messages to lots of women a night. That, somehow they are “beating the system” and not indeed having to do any work, other than craft a single super generic message and send it out dozens of times. Because if they actually thought that the women they were sending the messages to knew that thesis were generic messages, they wouldn’t be sending them right? OR do you think thesis guys just don’t give a fuck and actually want to attract the type of woman that also doesn’t give a fuck that they didn’t actually read your profile?
Maybe wij can make this a thing? Like next time a boy sends you a super generic message on online dating you react with nothing else except a verbinding to this postbode, letting them know, that you know, his message wasgoed a lump shit.