Women Love Introverts
You wanna date a party doll, don’t you?
But you’re not truly a party boy. You can do it. You CAN get your “state” up by socializing a little very first, or listening to well-meaning advice from guys like mij who tell you to get out every day and get talking and you will learn abilities and switch your behavior.
If you’re like mij, however, you are the kleuter of man who would truly rather be inwards, reading, or somewhere on your own, dreaming and thinking, and if there wasgoed a pretty lady there with you, not talking to you too much, and not bugging you when you’ve got stuff to do, well that would be all right too.
But everything you’ve everzwijn heard about picking up women tells you that you have to be the social monster party man who attracts women to him without even attempting. You want women, so you want to be the zuigeling of boy who gets them.
You want to be different. You don’t want to be tagged with that dreaded label, “introvert.” Meaning timid, nerdy, awkward, socially awkward and unskilled. meaning dorky. meaning lonely.
You want to be that cool boy, right? You want to be someone other than who you are.
I wanna be the dude who always has tons of friends around, who spends all day talking with beauties and everywhere he goes, he’s wiggling arms and smooching damsels like Bill Clinton on the campaign trail (his wifey’s trail, of course, where he can get way more activity than he everzwijn got on his own). It sounds like joy to be the dude who works the slagroom because that’s just who he is.
The popular guys get all the damsels, right? The party stud gets laid, while the quiet, serious boy off to the side just gets disregarded.
Except for one thing. That’s WRONG.
You know there are two distinct types of people te the world. Two categories. Introvert, and Extrovert. And they are defined very simply ter scientific terms. An introvert is a person who gathers energy from being alone and doing quiet, solitary things. An extrovert is a person who builds energy from being with other people, talking and mixing it up.
I am an introvert. 25% of the population is an introvert too. That makes it pretty infrequent. But since you are reading this, there’s a indeed good chance YOU are an introvert too.
Guys who go out and socialize because that’s what they need, for biological reasons, to re-charge their batteries, well those guys don’t have too much trouble kicking off conversations with strangers. They don’t worry too much about telling the right thing. They can just “be themselves,” because their auténtico self NEEDS to talk and talk and interact with people ter order to sustain.
That’s very likely not you, and it very likely drives you crazy that you just can’t spin the switch and turn it on like the cool guys do.
And I know because I’m the same way.
Anyone who has taken a workshop with mij, or joined mij at an AoF SuperSeminar will tell you that there’s no way te hell I’m an introvert. I’m too talkative, too glib, too “on” to everzwijn woo someone I’m timid. But that’s spectacle. Reminisce, the definition of introvert is not someone who is bashful, but someone who needs time alone to recharge.
Someone who doesn’t need to be around other people to have a good time. Someone who knows his own mind, and makes his own decisions regardless of what others think. Someone who is dependable and strong, and can withstand pressure from others when he knows what’s right, and doesn’t usually give much of a damn what you think, because he does what he wants to do, thank you very much.
Oh, and I left behind to mention, because he is pro at thinking and understanding his own feelings, he can solve elaborate problems and create fresh things that help the world, and make fortunes and invent cool shit and listen to people when they need someone to share significant stuff with, and basically connect with people because they aren’t dissipated by the hum of social activity around them.
The Introvert is an outcast. The minority. The loner. The rebel.
The Introvert is a bad-ass. He does not care what you think. He cares only what is right for him. He is strong. He is certain ter his abilities. He has a deep understanding of the world, and he loves and understands people for who they truly are, and has no trouble calling a stupid fuckhead a stupid fuckhead if that’s necessary.
The party fellow is out talking to everyone, but the Introvert is the one taking it all ter, feeling what is truly going on. He’s not socially awkward, he just doesn’t waste time frivolously. He makes his moments count. He is intense, mysterious, sultry and strong.
Ter brief, he is the Man that makes women’s undies druppel to the floor with a soft, moist sploooosh.
Set your mind free for a 2nd and leave behind everything you’ve everzwijn heard about Extrovert vs. Introvert. Leave behind everything you’ve everzwijn thought about how the popular guys get all the damsels (and yes, I know you witnessed it all through high schoolgebouw, but wij are guys now, not boys, and wij play the spel like boys, not boys). Let that all go, and consider this:
The Introvert is ter every way the hero of the movie, and the starlet of the voorstelling.
Think about the “coolest” guys you can think of. Wij all know cool when wij see it. It’s the stud who shows up not to care what you think, and lives a good life on his own terms. The man women want, and guys want to be.
Elvis Motherfucking Aron Presley.
Pretty cool cats all, wouldn’t you say? Now guess what all thesis dudes have te common (other than the fact that any woman would cut another bitches mouth with hier cautiously manicured penetrates to have just one slok to go to leger with any of them)?
They are ALL Introverts, right down to the core.
That doesn’t mean they are timid. It damn sure doesn’t mean they are unsuccessful. What it means is thesis are guys who choose time alone to time ter crowds, because alone they can do things fatter and more significant than just chit-chatting the day away on a cell phone or on IM. They are fellows with fantasies, ambitions, and power. They succeed where others fail because they have vision.
They don’t go to clubs. They BUILD clubs. They don’t make fresh friends. They choose cautiously the friends they keep. And they don’t pursue women.
Women pursue them.
Spil an introvert, you are born with an chance to build character that extroverts may never have. You can be stronger and more charismatic than the most glib cocktail party conversationalist. You don’t have to talk much, because when you do, it matters. It’s significant. It’s something you feel, for verdadero.
I’ll be fair. The party guys do tend to get more women. Why? Because they need them. They are out. It’s a basic law of statistics. But there’s a downside to it. Because they need women, need people around all the time, they don’t wait for the good women. They tend to be the guys who get hitched early, and then get bored, cheat on their wifey, get divorced and witness half their money vanish, along with their kids, to reside te some other man’s house so he can fuck hier and buy a fresh BMW with his metselspecie.
But the truly cool man, the introvert, he takes his time. He’s the stud who completes up with a Beyonce, or an Anna Kournikova, or a Angelina Jolie.
Extroverted women NEED Introvert boys, because they are the only ones that truly turn them on. They vaivén them out. They may like to geflirt with the party boy, but they will never take him earnestly, because he’s too much like them and it bores them ditzy.
The best, happiest, most charming women are looking for a man just like you. And all you need to do is be able to use your natural abilities to CONNECT with them and let them
into this deep, good world you know, and they will do anything to be ter it with you.
That’s what Real-Deal Rapport is. There are some very fundamental concepts, and three critical stages to Rapport that unlock all the best and sexiest parts of your personality. Merienda you know them, you don’t need ANY pickup tricks. You don’t need to worry about charm. You don’t need to worry about alpha. And you damn sure don’t need to worry about “attraction,” because Rapport trumps Attraction every time.
Hot women will geflirt with the dude who makes them laugh and tells them funny stories. But they go huis and f*$% the life out the man who connects with them emotionally and knows exactly who he is.
I have eventually putting on podclass all of my very best technologies for instructing you how to do it. I’ve bot instructing boys, and women, how to connect without tricks and without any childish routines for years, and all around the world. I’ve instructed studs of all ages, races, sizes and backgrounds. And I will instruct you.
It’s time for you to keuze what is rightfully yours. Zekering wasting your hard-earned money attempting to be someone else. Today you begin to be the Actual You. A Actual Man. The Existente Overeenkomst.
And when the women ter your life are glowing with appreciation for the switch (especially right afterwards, when she’s lounging te bedding, all tuckered out from “appreciation,”), please do mij one merced.