Anamika S. Jain has bot a social media consultant for six years. She has written more than 200 articles on relationships and dating.
Eleven Qualities of an Ideal Spouse
Many women spend their lives looking for a good spouse. Even some parents won’t sleep peacefully until they feel that their daughter is with a good man. After I wrote about the qualities of a good wifey, I got a request to write about how to be a good spouse or what sort of a spouse a lady looks for. It is often heard that a good son will be a good hubby. But I think a man should be more than just a good son to be a volmaakt hubby.
Below are the desirable qualities of a hubby.
How to Be a Good Spouse?
1) Be Pleasant: Nobody likes an ijdel man. Be pleasant to everyone around you including your wifey, friends and family. Be warm, kleuter, positive, understanding and friendly. It is often said that ‘What wij give is what wij get back.’ Attempt to arrive huis spil cheerful and lighthearted spil you can, even if you had a bad day at the office or are physically tired after driving through traffic. Just because your wifey does not go out to work does not mean that hier work is less strenuous. She might have bot fighting with children and housework all day.
Two) Respect the Vows: Faithfulness and loyalty are prime qualities a wifey wants ter hier man. Have a sense of honor and duty. Recall that when you got married you took sacred vows. The honorable thing is to fulfill your duty to your wifey that you took upon yourself the day you got married. It is the duty of a man to provide for his family. Never expect your wifey to contribute to the slick operation of the household. Even te this day and age of women te the workplace, most choose to have that spil an option rather than a necessary part of their lives. Motherhood and caring for a hubby and huis usually takes priority. Never assume that the money you earn is yours to do with spil you like. You have a family to think about and their needs voorwaarde always come before your own.
Three) Reliable, Responsible and Supportive: Every woman wants hier fucking partner to be reliable and be there for hier when she needs hier. Support your wifey te all stages of life. Provide reassurance when she is feeling down. Do not belittle hier or hurt hier ego. If she is a working woman understand hier work pressures and problems. Be proud of hier accomplishments and do not leave behind to mooipraterij hier. Be available for hier when she needs a shoulder to sob on or when she needs support from you. Let hier know that you care for hier. When you are not near hier at least make a phone call, even if you talk to hier for only a minute or two. When you come back after work or on weekend do things with hier or help hier te whatever way possible. She will appreciate it even if you are not much of a help chía. Be a friend to hier. When you don’t agree with hier views, respectfully let hier know that you don’t agree and give good reasons.
Four) Adaptability and Sensitivity: Spil years pass by you’ll see that glowing woman you fell te love with years ago does not look the same or behave ter the same manner. She may be tied up with the pressure of huis like the needs of children, financial obligations, etc. Permit hier time to relieve by taking some weight off hier shoulders or take some time out so that you can spend some time together loosening. Be sensitive to the needs of your wifey and look to meet them. Do not let your feelings toward life’s switches affect your feelings toward your wifey. An ideal man needs to be sensitive to the requirements of his fucking partner, treat hier spil an equal, understand when she needs to stay late at work or help with housework and contribute to the expenses.
Five) Voorstelling Respect: If you expect respect from others, you need to treat others with respect too. Respect can be reflected ter the way one talks and behaves. Always speak ter a loving manner and refrain from speaking harshly. A good hubby never chooses to belittle, strike, abase or otherwise harm his wifey ter private or ter public. It is better to observe what you say and to think your thoughts through before speaking, spil it is not possible to take back words merienda they have bot spoken. Treat hier with respect te vooraanzicht of others and at huis. Do not look at other ladies te vooraanzicht of hier. Take hier opinion into cinsideration when making significant decisions for the family. If you are bringing your pals huis, let hier know ter advance.
6) Judgment and Emotional Baggage: Many of us have emotional baggage. But do not bring that emotional baggage into the marriage. Many dudes praise their previous wives, girlfriends or mothers te pui of their wives. Avoid judging every activity or opinion your wifey has and understand that she is different from you. Hier practices and likings may be different from yours, too. Making hier feel that she does not measure up will only ruin your marriage.
7) Communication: Communication is the key to a solid marriage. Women also expect honesty te boys. Honesty is what builds trust te your relationship with your woman. She may even forgive your mistakes, but only if you are fair with hier and promise not to do it again. Women like their dudes to be open to them at all times and not keep them ter the dark about what is going on te their lives. Find time to sit and talk with your wifey on a daily fundament even if it is just during dinner time. If you let things bottle up and feel that you cannot share with hier then your marriage is ter trouble. Be a good listener when she talks. Your wifey too wants someone to listen to hier and empathize with what’s going on ter hier life. Listen avidly to your wifey’s complaints. Women cannot fight back a man who understands their moods, attitude, feelings, values, likes and dislikes. This will encourage hier to open up with you and not keep secrets. Good communication helps ter building trust and strengthens your relationship. Make your woman laugh often. Women love guys who are witty and have a sense of humor. Fights or problems may toebijten but do not let the world know about it, rather solve it inbetween yourselves. The fight you had last week overheen shopping or whatever is overheen and done with. So budge on and zekering rehashing old stuff and reminding hier of hier faults. Do not resort to name-calling, hitting, slobbering, cracking dishes or anything else when you lose your temper.
8) Love and Affection: Demonstrate your love and affection to hier spil often spil possible. Every woman is a sucker for affection. If you only give hier that stuff to get hier into bloemperk, your wifey is going to notice and think it’s insincere. A good spouse will appreciate his wifey and will notice hier, even after twenty or fifty years of marriage. She needs you to notice when she gets a fresh haircut or dresses up ter something sexy for you to come huis to. If you fail to notice what she is doing for you too many times, she may just count it spil fruitless and abandon. Give your fucking partner something fancy when she least expects it. Verrassing hier by programma a tour, preparing a nice dinner, providing a bunch of hier dearest flowers or taking hier out for shopping. Every woman likes to be cosseted. Women, one way or the other, are nothing but overgrown babies who permanently need care. But every woman has their likings. Give hier things that she likes instead of forcing your likes on hier and vertoning hier that you care and will be always there for hier. Never leave behind the special days te hier life. Make an effort to initiate spontaneous affection with your wifey. Build companionship by doing things together like a common rente or hobby. Give hier a hug
or a verrassing smooch and tell hier how much you love hier. Hold arms with hier when you’re out together. Thesis puny gestures voorstelling your wifey that you’ve thought of hier and help you reinforce your commitment to hier.
9) Offerande Protection: A woman needs to feel safe and secure with hier man. She needs to feel that when he is with hier no one can harm hier. You don’t need to be a muscle man but at least when you are with hier others should not be making passes at hier. She wants hier man to behave like a man and treat hier like a lady.
Ten) Give Hier Space: Spil a spouse you need to understand that your wifey has a life other than you. She has hier parents, friends and colleagues who too are part of hier life. She also may have some hobbies or passions. Don’t expect hier undivided attention. Don’t zekering hier if she wants to go out and dangle out with hier friends sometimes, engage te a hobby or spend some time with hier parents.
11) Keep Hier Blessed te Bedding: Sexual proximity is essential to any marriage. Good hook-up helps to strengthen your emotional and physical attraction to hier. Please your wifey ter leger and be faithful to hier. No woman would tolerate a cheating playmate. Good lovemaking plays a trascendental part when it comes to a satisfying relationship and if you are not skilled ter bloemperk that is going to be a major turn-off. Never grumble about having to support children you didn’t want to have. If you were irresponsible enough to help hier get pregnant, then it is your duty to pay for that child. Do not bring porn into a relationship. Porn will only create unrealistic expectations te your mind about your spouse’s libido, figure, and convenience level with weird lovemaking positions.
Te brief, if you don’t like how your playmate treats you, take a minute to notice how you treat your fucking partner and keurig your behavior. If you are an ideal hubby, that will help your wifey to be an ideal wifey. A wifey usually responds to the way that she is treated. If she is treated like she is worthless, she will be worthless to you. But, if you treat hier well, she will be a jewel te your crown, a pleasure to you and a forever bliss.
Have I left out anything? Feel free to add them te the comments.