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Online dating or you may say Internet Dating is very famous these days and becoming more and more popular because of its convenience and advantages. The first and foremost advantage from dating online is that you can contact matches without revealing your real identity avoiding the embarrassment if doesn't work out.

You may meet the people you would otherwise never get the chance to encounter. Dating online allows you to learn about person's qualities and attributes through the conversation. Since you are not seeing each other, it gives the chance to both of you to reveal the thoughts and feelings without feeling awkward or embarrassed.

Nervous about going out on that first date? Most people are, so join the club. The good news is that the more you date, the easier it naturally gets. Here are some first date basics to try, and before you know it, you'll be having fun, expanding your circle of friends and on your way to finding someone you might actually want to go on a second date.

Picking a spot to meet. Ideally, your first date should be at an open place that has a lot of people milling about, like a coffee shop, happy hour bar or casual lunch joint. A little creativity is a good idea, but remember that your goal is not to impress your date with the lavish setting but rather to select a spot that's casual and nice where there'll be ample opportunity to chit-chat quietly and get to know each other. Your best bet is someplace that you've already been to and like. If you don't have a spot in mind, ask a friend, coworker or even your date to recommend a favorite.

Be cool. Don't invite any friends to play James Bond on you during your date or provide an easy out if necessary. (Yes, daters do this.) If you're having a bad time on the date, act like a grown-up for an hour, grin and bare it, thank your date politely and leave. On the flip side, if you're having a blast, don't interrupt the flow with shouts of jubilation; rather, stay cool, tranquilly let your date know that you would like to go out again and celebrate with a friend later.

Don't think too much. If you find yourself smitten but your date isn't calling or responding when the ball is in their court, give it a few days and then give a ring and tell them you'd like to get together again. If their response is a dud, let it go and move on. If your date comes around later, realizing how simply irresistible you are, let him or her make the effort to see you again.

Remember that you are in control of your online experience at all times. You can remain completely anonymous until you feel ready. CONFIDENCE . It is sexy, attractive, and alluring to both men and women! How a person carries and presents himself or herself is a time-tested aphrodisiac. It's also a quality that both sexes eagerly look for in a long-term partner. Confidence reflects self-acceptance and self-love.

Don't compare yourself to other profiles you might see. You may look at another members personal ad profile and think they have something you don't, but the fact is they may be looking at you and thinking the very same thing. Someone may be better than you are at tennis, for example, but you can tell a much better joke. Judge yourself by your own standards, for you are unique!

Platonic versus romantic. Compatibility is at the base of all stable and satisfying interpersonal relationships - be they platonic or romantic.

Compatibility is the state of being in which two or more people have a pattern of mutually beneficial similarities and dissimilarities (called complementarities).

Relationships satisfy personal and social needs. Thus, compatibility occurs when two individuals are suitably matched in that both parties are fulfilled or satisfied across the facets that define us.

Core components of compatibility. Initial research indicated nine important components for Friendship Factors:

1. Equal eligibilities
2. Respect
3. Trust
4. Acceptance
5. Mutual assistance
6. Enjoyment
7. Spontaneity
8. Understanding
9. Intimacy

But, upon further investigation, it was narrowed to eight Friendship Factors:

1. Self-disclosure
2. Authenticity
3. Helping behavior
4. Acceptance
5. Positive regard
6. Strength of character
7. Similarity
8. Empathetic understanding
All but strength of character became more important as friendships became closer and more intimate.